Infidelity is gender-neutral: Delhi HC

New Delhi: The Delhi high court has observed that an act of infidelity by either spouse, irrespective of the gender, is on an equal footing and would cause mental cruelty to the other spouse with the same intensity.

A family court judge, in the instant case, had dismissed a petition filed by the husband seeking annulment of the marriage on ground of desertion and cruelty.

It observed that the husband had to render an explanation as to why so many women were call him “to remove the suspicion from the mind of his wife.” The court also observed that an allegation of infidelity made against the husband cannot be treated as mental torture.

Terming such an approach “perverse,” the bench comprising Justice Pradeep Nandrajog and Justice Yogesh Khanna observed: “A gender bias approach to the issue is revealed, when the learned Judge reasons that unchastity by a wife is to be viewed serious. An act of infidelity by either spouse, irrespective of the gender, is on an equal footing and would cause mental cruelty to the other spouse with the same intensity. The assumption by the learned Judge that the respondent has established the appellant and she had to prove the same.”

Allowing the appeal, the court said that where a marriage is broken own irretrievably, the insistence by one to continue with the matrimonial bond itself would be evidence of the desire to inflict further cruelty on the other. “Since December, 2005, the couple are living separately. They are past the prime of their lives. The children are major. No useful purpose would be served in maintaining the matrimonial bond,” the high court said.”

It added, “We are in the year 2017, obviously the marriage is broken irreparably.” Crulety is feeling which one forms in view of the conduct of the other party. “