Understand your insecurities better through this astro-guide.
Our zodiac signs can determine several aspects of our personality. Many people turn to astrology to get answers for various problems. Your zodiac sign also determine your insecurities in a relationship.
While it is not easy to wave goodbye to your insecurities, knowing what they are can help you be better equipped to deal with them. It can also help your partner understand you better and help you feel safer by taking care of your insecurities.
"By learning your astrological sun sign tendencies and those of your friends and lovers, you can truly understand yourself," Amy Zerner, an astrologer and co-author of Astrology for Wellness, said to Bustle. Here is a list of insecurities one can have in a relationship.
Aries (March 21 - April 19): Having to work at the relationship
An Arian’s insecurity lies in the fact that they feel they need to work hard at the relationship to make it work. Communication is a key area where a lot of work would be required to be put in. If the insecurity it too much, it would be good to focus on your strong points like showing affection, being loyal and romantic.
Taurus (April 20 - May 20): That you won't be successful
A Taurus loves the best things in life. But they also far that they may not have enough resources to make those big dreams come true. This insecurity can be harmful to the relationship, and can make one resent the partner for making more money. The right partner will always support you and not let you feel inadequate.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20): Not being understood
A Gemini changes their mind often and can risk irritating the partner. This can be a major point of insecurity in the relationship. Your partner might feel frustrated as you constantly change your dreams and passions. Instead of trying to change yourself, keep channels of communication open with your partner which means they feel included in the decision.
Cancer (June 21 - July 22): Being rejected
Cancerians withdraw at the first sight of criticism and thus have a fear of rejection. Thus, they constantly abandon their quest for the right partner. Instead of worrying about rejection, muster courage to speak up and it will be helpful in the long run.
Leo (July 23 - August 22): An unsatisfying love
A Leo can sometimes skew your perception of whether your relationship is healthy or not. Drama is essential for a Leo. Instead of doubting the relationship from the beginning, embrace the lulls in your relationship. Sometimes, its these moments that make the passionate moments more precious.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22): Your partner knowing your flaws
Virgos have a tendency of worrying get so bogged down by the small things that they miss out on the big picture. When the Virgo’s partner learns about their flaws, they feel that the partner will leave. It is important to remind yourself that your partner loves you despite the flaws.
Libra (September 23 - October 22): Being indecisive
Libras often become paralysed with indecision. They can be indecisive a restaurant, a date place or even an apartment. Tell your partner about your indecisiveness and they will help you ease your insecurities.
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21): Jealousy
Scorpios are notorious for being jealous partners. They love very deeply, thus it can translate into obsession sometimes. You will feel insecure if your partner goes out with someone for a business trip or a dinner. Fight this jealousy by making a point to know the other people in your partners life and know there is nothing to feel insecure about.
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21): Belonging to someone else
Give up your own personhood can hurt Saggitarians. They are reluctant to give away a piece of themselves despite of loving deeply. If you feel you could use a little more alone time, pick up a hobby you can do by yourself.
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19): How your partner views you
Capricorns often choose to hide their feelings for fear of appearing weak. They hide the fact if they are going through a tough time and try to put on a brave front. Take a moment to reflect on your own feelings of wanting to be there to support your partner during their difficult moments. This can help remind you that they want to do the same.
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18): Not knowing yourself
Aquarians usually don’t have a grasp on themselves and are uncertain of their true identity. Aquarians may misread or even second-guess their own emotions. This insecurity starts to subside when you are in a stable relationship.
Pisces (February 19 - March 20): Having trouble dealing with problems
Pisceans often feel their problems drag them down and the inability to do anything about it frustrates them. This can lead to them resorted to different methods to find solace which can harm the relationship. Ask your partner for affirmation of the things that you're doing well, so that you'll be encouraged to take on those problems that are still looming.