What happens to a conservative tradition-bound Hindu family when the son comes out as gay?

This is a question that has  been haunting our cinema for some time now. I remember  Sanjoy Nag’s Memories In March where Deepti Naval played a bereaved  mother who discovers her son’s homosexuality after his death through  his partner, played by the late and much-missed filmmaker  Rituporno Ghosh. In Evening Shadows, the central character of the matriarch is played by Mona Ambegaonkar, a grossly under-utilised actress who  emerges from the Shadows, so to speak, with a powerful if somewhat uneven compromised performance in a film that means well but is constantly stymied by stilted dialogues and some monstrously embarrassing twists in the plot that  make us want to scream in  protest.

Outwardly, the reach is impressive. The rural Karnataka locations are fabulously scenic and the homes look lived-in. But the situations created by the plot to underscore the domestic dynamics are far from convincing.

This could have been such a game-changing film. god knows, Ms Ambegaonkar and newcomer Devansh Doshi as mother and son on a journey of discovery,  imbue their characters with a disarming believability. Sadly the dialogues they are made to speak to each other and to the  other characters in the film, sound like they are being read out from a teleprinter at a very poorly conceived live show.

The conversations between protagonist Kartik and his gay partner over the phone, also sound heavily stitled and self-conscious in  spite of the profusion of endearments the pair  exchange. And some of the more sighing moments appear to be clumsy wish-fulfilment rather than reality.

A far less self-conscious self-congratulatory  approach to the subject would have gone a long way in furnishing the drama  with a more authentic base.

As a film about coming out of  the closet, Evening Shadows casts a fairly deepening shadow over its character’s lives as the son’s revelations shake the family and its time-worn values. Ananth Mahadevan as the  rigid smirky patriarch sadly deficient in the quality of human compassion, is admirably apt, sometimes more so than the script allows the actors to be.

The writers (Sridhar Rangayan and Saagar Gupta) are seen to be constantly in a dilemma as to how far they should go in  the exploration of Kartik’s sexual  identity without scaring the  more conservative audiences away. Consequently, the narrative often comes across as half-hearted, if not entirely ludicrous, as in the way Kartik’s  uncle Ramesh (Abhay Kulkrani) is revealed to have sexually abused Kartik during his  childhood. However Kartik  doesn’t see his uncle’s abuse as  abuse. “No I enjoyed what we did together,” he tells his discernibly stunned mother.

The film also wants us to believe that promiscuity is not a rule, in the gay community. Fidelity is.

“I am not just physically attracted to my partner. We plan to spend the rest of our lives together. I love him as in  any heterosexual partnership,” Kartik tells his mother.

Frankly the film loses it credibility quickly after such absurd leaps of faith. There are some very embarrassing  moments with Kartik’s divorced aunt who counsels Karti, “Never marry for any  reason but love.” Before  the film slips  into a self-righteous  pool of  bumper sticker wisdom, it quickly regains some lost ground in the closing moments when Kartik’s mother stands up for her son and ticks off her rigidly conservative husband, reminding him he has done nothing in their son’s upbringing to warrant his angered  protest at the son’s sexuality.

Ambegaonkar dazzles in her climactic tick-off. If only her  dilemma as a wife and mother were not weighed against one another, as though to suggest that it is preferable to be honest  than loyal in a relationship. Evening Shadows is more credible for what it tries to say  about same-sex relationships than what we actually hear it saying. For, when it comes to the words, they definitely get in  the way.