Jennifer Lopez had filed for a permanent restraining order against a man Tim McLanahan, who has apparently been following the star from Las Vegas to Los Angeles, and even showed up at her apartment, and sent her unwanted gifts. Sadly, now, a judge has dismissed the restraining order.

TMZ.com reports that JLo’s security team, that was handling the issue, failed to show up at the court on the specified date because they thought there would be no point anyway, as they could not find McLanahan to hand him the legal documents.

However, the team did not know that if they couldn’t find Tim to serve him, there’s a process by which the judge could allow her team to publish a legal notice in a newspaper.