Wednesday, Sep 20, 2017 | Last Update : 08:21 PM IST
Sex becomes automatic after a while for couples who have been together for a while, and these things can bring back the spark.
Sex is a priority for a lot of young people and with more ways to find new people as well as meet more people than before, good sex plays a major role in overall well being of a person too. Sex between two people contributes a great deal to compatibility and this is why it has a crucial place in a relationship.
While satisfaction for both and ample foreplay as well as afterplay are inalienable when it comes to sex, people need to work consistently in order to keep the spark alive and make sure that they are doing well between the sheets. While everyone has their own comfort levels and kinks, here are a few ways to take things to a different level.
1. Swearing off sex
It may sound strange at first but abstaining from sex for a long time can actually make people want it even more. When two people have been together for a long time and sex becomes routine, it helps to take a long break to bring back the spark. Getting undressed and touching each other can be a beginning to communicate sensuality till a point when both can’t stand it anymore. At this point you should hold off and continue this for a few nights to have an explosive time between the sheets.
One of the key aspects for great sex is making it last longer and when it comes to going on for a good amount of time, masturbating beforehand helps. Ejaculating a couple of hours before getting in action makes sure that it becomes difficult for a man to come. If the man’s excitement is already satisfied, he can connect with his partner better too.
While people can’t wait to swing into action in bed, talking is actually something that sets apart great sex from just another romp. Discussing your fantasies and letting each other know what turns you on is a great start, talking dirty in bed and also the entire day before having sex is bound to push the excitement to a new level.
4. Managing your routine
Stress is the biggest enemy when it comes to maintaining a healthy sex drive as it makes almost impossible for one to feel sexy. Biologically bodies of women with chronic tension produce high levels of oxytocin that can negate the effect of testosterone and bring down libido. The only way to deal with this is to do things that can help break out of the hectic lifestyle and let you relax.
One more way to make sex amazing and last longer is abstinence from orgasms. Every person has a point of no return when it comes to ejaculation and stopping a man right before coming and waiting for a minute to start again can help him extend the period before he reaches that point.
Breaking free from a stressful lifestyle and feeling relaxed does a lot for making one feel sexy. Trading massages enable people to hit back at a hectic routine and indulge in some sensual foreplay at the same time. The best way is to start with the legs and back as you move to explore each other and communicate on a different level.
7. New positions
Talking about fantasies and being adventurous in bed does turn up the heat but trying out something different can work wonders for your sex life. While a lot of positions that can lead to better orgasms are known, there’s nothing better than using your imagination and coming up with your own ways to have sex.
8. New places
Getting adventurous and trying something thrilling is not just about what you do in the bedroom, having sex in different places in the house be it the kitchen or shower or couch can also lead to something exciting. Maybe getting out of the house and trying out locations outdoor while taking care about privacy can also be an option.