Anupam Kher

Anupam Kher

Anupam Kher

The renowned actor answers readers’ queries about personal problems and doubts, and offers advice and guidance

Think before you act!

Sir, my boyfriend and I have been in love for the last four years. We really love each other but his parents bluntly refused to let us marry. They don’t want him to marry out of his caste. He is into family business and if he marries me, his parents will throw him out of the business and house. He says he can’t live without me but is also unable to convince his parents. Now, I am not sure what to do. I feel guilty about making him leave his family and business for me, and also find it very hard to move on. Please advise me as my parents are also looking for a suitable match for me.
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Balancing act in life

I’m a 20-year-old college student. I was in love with my classmate. Last month I broke up with her. She cheated on me. And now it is very hard for me to face her all day in class.

Little Laila was taught that God creates everyone and also leads everyone back to Godself after death. So, she prayed: “Dear God, instead of letting people die and having to make new ones, why don’t you just keep the ones you got now?” Laila’s prayer may never be answered; but, Easter does assure us that life, not death, is what we’re created for.

Of late, Congress vice-president Rahul Gandhi has been thoughtlessly and in a hurry jumping into every available situation, without verifying basic facts, to criticise the Bharatiya Janata Party.